if you guys were seriuos aobut kiloing him, you'd have brute forced it... jsut AAed and ARed him till he was out of turns to stonewall with.
and about the grab thing, personaly i wouldn't really mind if that happened to me, i know pretty well how desperate you are at like 500 land to get any grab.. if you'Re seconds away from death, you don't spend too much time on target picking.