actually its usually better to have bigger states attack you because they have more land, and when you get grabbed, if the guy grabbing you has more land, you lose less land. Further more you'll get more opportunities for gb....i.e. < # of hits on your state (the more you have, the less land you'll lose with each subsequent hit). in GDN however you might end up in a situation where you have loads of land, no gb and someone equally as small will grab you for **** loads of land :-)