Although I don't approve this behavior by my own players I think you understand the term "getting farmed" wrong - getting farmed is when top1 state grabs top2 throughout the set and gets 75-100k land from one state alone or when top2 state grabs top1 state in the end of the set and gets 30k+ land with a single grab or when farmers stay low with their "over the average" lands and get grabbed by restarts who have used 250 turns, but getting grabbed and losing ~100 to 200 land is getting ultra awesome GB protection (especially in top and this early into set) which gives you considerable advantage.
Besides like I told you last set, you yourself have also made some triples from time to time.